Isolated but Not Alone

Isolated but Not Alone: Spiritual Grooming Part 10

June 14, 2022 James Rains
Isolated but Not Alone: Spiritual Grooming Part 10
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Isolated but Not Alone
Isolated but Not Alone: Spiritual Grooming Part 10
Jun 14, 2022
James Rains

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com***

On today's episode, I'm continuing my discussion on a current situation that is having a profound impact on me that has all kinds of intersectionality within the rural and isolated communities in which I have interaction and reside.   The topics are the difficult and complex issues of spiritual grooming and spiritual abuse, which I believe often leads to sexual abuse but not always.  Spiritual grooming has become an epidemic in evangelical communities and is often subtle affecting children and adults.  It is subtle because it uses our spirituality against us, and causes us to distrust ourselves and our buddies in order to trust others who claim that what they are saying comes from God. 

On this week's episode, I'm going continue discussing the profound impacts of spiritual grooming and spiritual abuse.  Like the previous episodes, I am expanding the definition of spiritual abuse and spiritual grooming focusing how it looks practically.  Today, I include a discussion on shame and provide a glimpse of the experience and fallout of grooming and abuse in hyperdrive. 

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com*** 

Here is a link to the Faithful and True Podcast on spiritual abuse,
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faithful-true-podcast/id717296553?i=1000564049260

Here is a link to Allender Center podcast on spiritual abuse, https://theallendercenter.org/2022/05/revisiting-spiritual-abuse/ and here is a link to their website where you can find all kinds of content on spiritual abuse, https://theallendercenter.org

This is a revisitation of their original podcast series.  

I want to caution listeners that this content is passionate, and my feel a little different than my normal content.  Please listen to the preface for this topic where I explain why I choose to do these episodes, why they are so passionate, and a disclaimer that I do not want to disparage anyone from their religious values or their spirituality.  I simply want to bring to light what I see as a major problem within evangelical churches especially in rural and isolate communities.  

Intro/Outro music & Transition Sounds, ambient-atmospheric-4947, found at https://cdn.pixabay.com/download/audio/2021/06/07/audio_cdfb955189.mp3?filename=ambient-atmospheric-4947.mp3

National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255

National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233

National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673

Crisis Text Line - Text “MN” to 741741

Call 911 for emergency

This and other content produced by James Rains is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this podcast creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please seek help from your therapist or seek help from one in your area if you are experiencing any mental health concerns.  Nothing should be construed to be specific advice.  It is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com*** 

Show Notes

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com***

On today's episode, I'm continuing my discussion on a current situation that is having a profound impact on me that has all kinds of intersectionality within the rural and isolated communities in which I have interaction and reside.   The topics are the difficult and complex issues of spiritual grooming and spiritual abuse, which I believe often leads to sexual abuse but not always.  Spiritual grooming has become an epidemic in evangelical communities and is often subtle affecting children and adults.  It is subtle because it uses our spirituality against us, and causes us to distrust ourselves and our buddies in order to trust others who claim that what they are saying comes from God. 

On this week's episode, I'm going continue discussing the profound impacts of spiritual grooming and spiritual abuse.  Like the previous episodes, I am expanding the definition of spiritual abuse and spiritual grooming focusing how it looks practically.  Today, I include a discussion on shame and provide a glimpse of the experience and fallout of grooming and abuse in hyperdrive. 

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com*** 

Here is a link to the Faithful and True Podcast on spiritual abuse,
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faithful-true-podcast/id717296553?i=1000564049260

Here is a link to Allender Center podcast on spiritual abuse, https://theallendercenter.org/2022/05/revisiting-spiritual-abuse/ and here is a link to their website where you can find all kinds of content on spiritual abuse, https://theallendercenter.org

This is a revisitation of their original podcast series.  

I want to caution listeners that this content is passionate, and my feel a little different than my normal content.  Please listen to the preface for this topic where I explain why I choose to do these episodes, why they are so passionate, and a disclaimer that I do not want to disparage anyone from their religious values or their spirituality.  I simply want to bring to light what I see as a major problem within evangelical churches especially in rural and isolate communities.  

Intro/Outro music & Transition Sounds, ambient-atmospheric-4947, found at https://cdn.pixabay.com/download/audio/2021/06/07/audio_cdfb955189.mp3?filename=ambient-atmospheric-4947.mp3

National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255

National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233

National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673

Crisis Text Line - Text “MN” to 741741

Call 911 for emergency

This and other content produced by James Rains is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this podcast creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please seek help from your therapist or seek help from one in your area if you are experiencing any mental health concerns.  Nothing should be construed to be specific advice.  It is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

***If you would be interested in sharing your story on a future episode of Isolated but Not Alone or have your story shared, please reach out via this email, isolatedbutnotalone@outlook.com***